"You should concentrate on yourself first, anyway," Aeryn says. "When I first got back I refused to get back together with John, because I wasn't the same person I'd been even two weeks prior." She pauses. "Granted, it didn't exactly stay that way for very long, but the sentiment was correct and I don't think we would have solved anything if it hadn't been for that break. Be patient and you'll get there."

Aeryn, the postergirl for patience, yes.